Marriage ek aisa rishta hai jo sirf do logon ko nahi, unke parivaaron ko bhi jodta hai. Ye pyaar, vishwas aur respect ka bond hai. Shaadi do alag individuals ko ek saath laati hai.Shaadi ka matlab sirf ek ghar me rehna nahi hai. Yeh saath muskurane aur life ko jeene ka wada hai. Shaadi khaas hai.Because,Isme partners ek doosre ke flaws ko accept karke sath rehte hain. Har chhoti khushi badi lagti hai aur badi mushkil chhoti, jab aapka life partner aapke saath ho.Yeh zindagi ka sabse khoobsurat bandhan hai. Shaadi ek aisa safar hai jo zindagi ko aur sundar banata hai.
Shaadi ke baad newlyweds ki life kaafi exciting hoti hai. Par kabhi kabhi chhoti-chhoti baatein ladai ka reason ban sakti hain. Agar aap apne new married life mein khush rehna chahte ho aur fights avoid karna chahte hain.Then,ye 5 tips aapke kaam aa sakte hai.
1. Love Aur Affection Dikhana
Kuch important gesture for newlyweds-
Shaadi ke baad sirf “I love you” bolna kaafi nahi hota, aapko apne partner ke liye apne pyar ko show bhi karna hota hai.
- Chhoti-Chhoti Cheezein Karein: Jaise unka favorite food banana, unhe surprise dena, ya unke efforts ki tarif karna.
- Daily Time Spend Karein: Har din kuch time sirf ek dusre ke saath bitaayein. Jaise movie dekhna, walk par jana, ya sirf baatein karna.
- Touch Ka Magic: Kabhi kabhi ek hug ya haath pakadne se bhi fights neutral ho jati hain.Ye tried and tested way hai.
Love aur affection dikhane se relationship strong banta hai. And ek doosre ke liye samajh develop hoti hain.
2. Blame Game Se Bachna
Root cause aur solutions ko find karna-
Shaadi mein blame game matlab ek dusre ko dosh dena.Ye kaafi dangerous ho sakta hai. Agar koi problem ho, toh ek team ki tarah solve karne ki koshish kariye.Afterall aap soulmates hain.
- “Tumhari Galti Hai” Mat Boliye: Yeh sunna kisi ko pasand nahi hota. Isse fights aur badh sakti hain.
- Problem Ko Discuss Kariye: Calmly baith kar problem ke solutions par focus karna chahiye.
- Apni Galti accept kriye: Agar aap galat ho, toh “Sorry” bolne mein der mat kariye. Yeh ek strong person ki pehchan hoti hai.
Blame karne se acha hai ki solutions pe dhyan dijie,aur apni relationship ko improve kariye.
3. Family Ko Apke Fight Mein Interfere Na Karne Dena
Fights ko khud Tak rakhna-
Shaadi ke baad family kaafi important hoti hai.But apni fights mein unhe involve karna acha idea nahi hai.
- Privacy Rakhiye: Jo kuch aapke aur aapke partner ke beech ho raha hai, usse family ke saath share mat kariye.Unless it is something else.
- Dono Families Ko Respect Karna: Koi bhi apni family ke khilaf baat sunna pasand nahi karta. Isliye dono taraf ke parents ki izzat karein.
- Neutral Baniye: Agar koi family member kuch galat bole, toh calmly and respect ke sath baat ko handle kariye.
Family ke interfere karne se fights aur worse ho sakti hain. isliye apni ladaaiyon ko khud hi solve kariye.
4. Patience Rakho
Patience matlab dhairya rakhna. Ye ek successful marriage ke liye bahut zaroori hai.
- Gussa Avoid karein: Agar partner se galti ho gayi ho, toh pehle samajhne ki koshish kariye.Gussa hone se problem solve nahi hoti.
- Time Dein: Har kisi ko adjust karne ke liye time chahiye hota hai. Apne partner ko samay dein, taaki woh naye environment mein comfortable feel karein.
- Deep Breathe karein: Agar aapko lagta hai ki ladaai hone wali hai, toh deep breathing kariye.Isse emotions control hote hain.
Patience rakhne se fights automatically kam ho jati hain.Sath hi sath aap dono ek dusre ke temper ko ache se samajh paate hain.
5. Mutual Goals Set Karna
Shaadi ke baad ek important cheez hoti hai “Teamwork”. Dono ko milkar apne future ke liye goals set karne chahiye.
- Financial Goals: Aap dono milkar decide kariye ki kaise ap money save karenge.Future me kaun si investment karenge.
- Travel Goals: Saath mein vacations plan karei.Isse aap dono ko quality time spend karne ka chance milega.
- Life Goals: Chhoti-chhoti cheezein, jaise ek naye ghar ka sapna, ek pet lena, ya ek naye skill ko seekhna, milkar decide karein.
Jab dono ek direction mein kaam karte hain, toh fights ki jagah teamwork aur bonding strong hoti hai.
Conclusion
Shaadi ek beautiful journey hai, jisme pyaar aur understanding sabse zaroori hai. Fights choti baaton par hoti hain.Agar aap kuch bataon ka dhyan de toh ye avoid kia ja sakta hai.
Yaad rakhein, “Shaadi ek team ki tarah chalti hai, jisme dono players ko milkar effort karna padta hai.”
Agar aap apne marriage mein problems ya misunderstanding ka samna kar rahe hain, toh The Karan se juden. The Karan spiritual healing ke zariye aapke marriage ke root causes aur negative blockages ko door karte hain, aur aapko relationship mein priority values ko samajhne mein madad karte hain. The Karan aapko sukoon, harmony aur ek naye connection ki taraf guide karte hain, taaki aapka shaadi ka safar aur bhi khoobsurat ho.
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